Coaching

Regardless of what brings you here, I pride myself on creating an inclusive atmosphere that is welcoming of all folks to explore power exchange and erotic energy within themselves and their partners. 

Therapeutic

As a board-certified sexologist, certified sex therapy practitioner, as well as a certified trauma-informed relationship, libido, and sexual wellness coach, I have worked with countless individuals, couples, and those in other dynamics to enhance their lives and intimate connections.

I experience great satisfaction in helping people reach their highest selves so that they may lead a more fulfilling life. Allow me to guide you on a path to self-empowerment and unlocking your potential in a way that feels authentic to you.

Whether you’re swimming in the dating pool or have been with someone long term, there’s always ways to improve and make your bond even stronger. Some may find it difficult to open up about intimate topics but I pride myself on creating a safe and comfortable space to do so with non-judgment.

There's something truly special about seeing partners connect in a deeper way than they even thought was possible. Ranging from vanilla, every day obstacles all the way to 24/7 power exchange, allow yourself the freedom to explore more pleasurable, cohesive relationships. With my guidance, you'll be able to achieve a healthier sex drive and an abundance of renewed passion for each other.

I invite you to work with me:

  • Defining what intimacy and pleasure mean for you
  • Exploring connections after trauma
  • Building better communication styles
  • How to speak your partner’s love languages
  • Enhancing self-awareness 
  • Learning to be more present during intimacy
  • Navigating neurodivergence and mental health concerns
  • Desire and libido discrepancies
  • Managing chronic illness for yourself and others
  • Bringing in sex toys and spicing up your bedroom activities
  • Feeling comfortable and empowered in your own skin
  • Breaking old patterns and vices
  • Exercises to build trust when it has been broken
  • Delving into non-monogamy effectively
  • Staying connected and excited despite being long distance
  • Improving body positivity and self worth
  • How to engage in more fulfilling intimacy
  • Opening up about needs and desires
  • Setting and upholding boundaries
  • Tips for getting the most out of your dating experiences
  • Spotting red flags in potential partners
  • Keeping the flame burning in long term relationships
  • Strategies to help disagreements
  • Exploring attachment styles and how they show up for you
  • Balancing relationship and responsibilities
  • Managing trauma such as SA, developmental, relationship, military, religious, relational, etc. 

Alternative Lifestyle:

I know there is so much literature out there about BDSM and alternative lifestyles that it all can seem overwhelming and intimidating to think about including this in your life.  My approach offers a gentle introduction so you can dip your toes in with much less anxiety. I tailor all sessions to my client’s comfortability and what pace feels right for them with a strong focus on informed consent. 

If you have already begun your journey but are looking for something a bit more, we can delve into numerous forms of play with hands-on training regardless of how you identify. I have two experienced bottoms that can join us for you to practice techniques on if you wish. My clients have included novice to extreme kinksters, swingers, fetishists, hedonists, and those just looking to upgrade their bedroom skills. I have a fully equipped dungeon that can aid in our time. You’ll have the opportunity to test out a wide range of equipment and implements, all handled with strict hospital-grade cleanliness and full discretion.

Come explore with me:

  • Discovering your kinky persona and what roles fit you best
  • Safety precautions for various types of play
  • Negotiation skills to take your play to explosive heights
  • Considerations for neurodivergent and chronically ill folks
  • Dungeon etiquette to present your best self
  • Delving in this lifestyle as a trauma survivor
  • Dos and don'ts of being a kinkster
  • Keeping yourself safe from predators
  • Ways to stand out regardless of your identity
  • Navigating elevated Dom and subspace
  • What it means to be queer and kinky
  • How to modify to accommodate any number of limitations
  • The essentials of aftercare and fighting drop
  • Practicing intentional kink
  • Exploring power exchange beyond the bedroom
  • Engaging in kink without sex
  • Practical skills to blow your partner’s mind
  • Learn dirty talk and verbal domination skills
  • Adding meaningful protocols and rituals 
  • Tailoring your experiences to match your desires
  • Creating an inviting atmosphere for your play
  • Implementing rewards and punishments 
  • Managing D/s long term and keeping it exciting
  • Responsibilities of being a reputable player
  • Learning what to do in case of an emergency
  • Balancing your kink and vanilla lives
  • Enforcing chastity and orgasm control
  • Femme-led relationships from beginner to advanced
  • Safer rope, leather and other bondage 
  • How to incorporate role play 

Professional

I’ve been in the adult industry and involved in the kink lifestyle in a personal manner since 2001 which has given me a myriad of experiences to draw upon in helping professionals develop insight into their business. I’ve taught workshops for helping those looking to get into SW all across the country including Kink.com. I've spent almost 25 years as a Dominatrix, cam model, content creator, and much more in this realm. This has aided in my ability to guide others to successful careers.

Whether you’re just starting out or have been doing this for many years, I’ll help you expand your income and build lasting financial security. Let’s cultivate your business model and brand in ways that leave you head and shoulders above the competition with a book of eager pay-for-play clientele.

Let me guide you with:

  • How to establish yourself
  • Finding your niche and specialties
  • Creating your brand and marketing it
  • Advertising and where to do it safely
  • Designing your website and other ways to attract clients
  • Helping you distinguish who is a timewaster
  • Managing deposits, payments, and tributes
  • Secrets for financial domination
  • What sites are best for you and your brand
  • Setting boundaries and keeping them
  • General flow of a professional scene
  • Negotiations for in person and virtual work
  • How to handle stalkers and overly attached individuals
  • What does prep and clean up look like for a session
  • Putting together your supplies for when you are traveling
  • Dressing for success 
  • Networking
  • Learning skills with top notch toys and equipment in an upscale dungeon

Book Now

Please be sure to fill out the booking form on my contact page so we can make the most of our time together.

I welcome you to email me with any questions you may have. Mackenzee@MissMackenzee.com

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